|Posted by Luka Thalius on September 9, 2014 at 3:35 PM|
"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me"
Guurl, I started saying that before Rihanna made it popular!
The worlds of kink and fetish are hard to explain, and often associated with taboos. Why? Well, they're weird to some, they can sometimes look violent, and they scare old ladies. Tell grandma not to go browsing the internet for that cream pie recipe she's been looking for or she'll have a stroke.
I'd say that a majority of society like their sex the same way my sister likes her ice cream: straight-up vanilla. There's nothing wrong with that! But if it's all you're used to, then kink looks scary. Let's shine a light on it, shall we?
Kink is an umbrella term used for any kind of sexual practice that goes beyond what we consider normal or conventional. Some of these are widely known, but there are a good many that are overlooked. They can range from BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism), Threesomes, Orgies, Scat play, or Dominance/Submission. The D/S one is more of a lifestyle, really, but that's something I'll explain in a little while.
Age play - Similar to Infantilism, in which both/all partners refer to each other as mommy/baby, daddy/daughter, etc. This does not include nor imply aspects of incest, rather the use of teacher/student roles.
Anal plugs (small and large) - These nifty devices can be used during sex and even worn publicly, underneath clothing. They can be used for pain training, or simply just for fun.
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)
Aromas - Scent is a very powerful thing. Aromas can be used to sexually/mentally simulate yourself and others.
Asphyxiation (choking/being choked)
Auctioned for charity
Bathroom use control
Being serviced (sexual)
Bondage (public, under clothing)
Brown showers (scat)
Cages (locked inside of)
Cattle prod (electrical toy)
Cells/Closets (locked inside of)
Chores (domestic service)
Collars (worn in private)
Collars (worn in public)
Competitions (with other subs)
Corsets (wearing casually)
Corsets (trained waist reduction)
Enemas (for cleansing)
Erotic dance (for audience)
Eye contact restrictions
Fear (being scared)
Fisting (anal & vaginal)
Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...)
Foot worship, bedwetting, dressing, eating, homo/heterosexuality, masturbation, nudity in private/public, servitude, smoking)
Full head hoods
Gags (cloth, inflatable, phallic, rubber, tape)
Gates of Hell (male chastity device)
Given away to another Dom (permanent or temporary)
Hand jobs (giving/receiving)
Harems (serving w/other subs)
Harnessing (leather, rope)
Having food/clothing chosen for you
Head (give or receive fellatio/cunnilingus)
Homage with tongue (non-sexual)
Hot oils (on genitals)
Human puppy dog
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage
Lectures for misbehavior
Manacles & irons
Modeling for erotic photos
Name change (for scene)
Name change (legal, permanant)
Nipple rings (piercings)
Oral/anal play (rimming)
Persona training (in scene)
Personality modification (RL)
Phone sex (serving Dom)
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends)
Phone sex (commercial provider)
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)
Prostitution (public pretense)
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.)
Restrictive rules on behavior
Rope body harness
Scratching - getting
Scratching - giving
Serving (as ashtray, furniture, maid, for other doms with or without supervision)
Sexual deprivation (short term)
Slutty clothing (private)
Speech restrictions (when, what)
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)
Strapping (full body beating)
Suspension (upright, inverted, horizontal)
Supplying new partners for Dom
Swapping (with one other couple)
Voyeurism (watching others)
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)
Video (watching others)
Video (recordings of you)
Weight loss (forced)
I know, there's a lot going on. But if you have any questions, please feel free to ask! I'm more than willing to do the research needed to provide you with answers about these topics.
Did I miss something in this list? Send me a message or comment and I'll be sure to add it in for you!
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