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External Condom Tricks!

Posted by Luka Thalius on September 10, 2014 at 12:35 AM Comments comments (0)

External Condom Tricks!

In the post "Is It on the Right Way?", I talked about how to safely put on an external condom. In this mini-post, I'll go into detail about else you can do with an external condom!


Why do I call them "external" condoms? Why not just say "male"?

Because not everyone who uses them are having sex with a male. They aren't alway...

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Get Your Geek On! - Convention Safety

Posted by Luka Thalius on September 9, 2014 at 11:25 PM Comments comments (0)

Dude, conventions are fun! Especially the ones geeks and gamers have. But there are people at cons who are looking to have too much fun, and there might even be people who could make others feel uncomfortable. How do we deal with that? Also, how do we deal with sexuality at cons? Here's some basic information on convention policies and how to be safe.


My partner and I went to PAX East last weeke...

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Trans* Health (I don't have anything witty for this)

Posted by Luka Thalius on September 9, 2014 at 11:15 PM Comments comments (0)

I've got a lot of friends and loved ones who identify as trans* and I think it's important to include how to be healthy as a trans* individual. Note that I am not trans* identified (more gender non-conforming), I am an ally who wants to help give others info. If you would like for me to add more about this topic, please indicate in the comments below!

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I'll be Watching You: Stalking, Harassment, and General Discomfort

Posted by Luka Thalius on September 9, 2014 at 10:55 PM Comments comments (0)





A friend of mine was recently harassed by a person who works in the same store as her. They usually don't work together, but they occasionally see each other and joke around. Sometimes it's play-flirting, and it's with more than just this guy. Everyone was under the assumption that it was just fun, nothing serious (as she has a partner, who is also a...

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Allowing the Awkward ??? Guaranteed Weird Sexy Times or Your Money Back!

Posted by Luka Thalius on September 9, 2014 at 10:50 PM Comments comments (0)

I lied about the “money back” thing.


Everyone who has had some sexual experiences, including masturbation, has also had some moments where things didn't go “as planned” and there was a moment of awkwardness. Maybe one of your family members walked in on you and you “fear-gasmed”, one of you pooted during sex, someone drooled on their partner accidentally, the bed fell apart, etc.

These moments are there, whether or not we fully ackn...

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My Place, 9:00, Bring the Consent

Posted by Luka Thalius on September 9, 2014 at 10:40 PM Comments comments (0)

Quick announcement!

As a gamer, I enjoy watching reviews, let's play videos, and other cool stuff to do with games. My partner and his dad did a review on "Warhammer Diskwars", a table top game with wooden disks instead of miniatures and based off of the Warhammer Fantasy game. On comment on the video was that my partner looked like Kevin Smith because of his beard. I am pleased to know I'm dating Kevin Smith. :) You may now continue to your regularly schedule sex blog.

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Luka Thalius and the Birth Control Conundrum pt. 2

Posted by Luka Thalius on September 9, 2014 at 7:55 PM Comments comments (0)

NuvaRing - aka The Ring (no, not that horror movie with the girl and the television)

The ring is a 2” flexible ring that you insert into your vagina once a month to prevent pregnancy.

It's pretty easy to get with a prescription, and in some cases you might be able to get one through your community health center. It will cost anywhere from $15-$80.


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Luka Thalius and the Birth Control Conundrum pt. 1

Posted by Luka Thalius on September 9, 2014 at 7:40 PM Comments comments (0)

I've talked about using condoms on this blog before, but they're not the only type of birth control/pregnancy prevention on the planet.


They're not?


That's right! In fact, there are about several different types of birth control out there. Let's take a look at them.



Ah, the dreaded abstinence! The thought that one can actually decide to not have sex. Such an idea is ludicrous! But it does happen. Abstine...

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Luka Thalius & The Discussion on Slut Shaming

Posted by Luka Thalius on September 9, 2014 at 3:45 PM Comments comments (0)

A very wise, yet not-so-old man was asked:

"Do you think it matters how many people someone has slept with?"


And that not-so-old man replied:

"No, and it particularly bothers me that women are held to a different standard on this front than men. It's such a weird thing to care about. Like, if I imagined I tried eating Cheerios for breakfast. Would Cheerios be like 'I'm the 48th cereal you've tried eating?! I don't feel special'. Well then, screw you, ...

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Working Out the Kinks - On Ropes, Chains, and Other Things

Posted by Luka Thalius on September 9, 2014 at 3:35 PM Comments comments (0)

"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me"


Guurl, I started saying that before Rihanna made it popular!


The worlds of kink and fetish are hard to explain, and often associated with taboos. Why? Well, they're weird to some, they can sometimes look violent, and they scare old ladies. Tell grandma not to go browsing the internet for that cream pie recipe she's been looking for or she'll have a stroke.


I'd say th...

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